His Secret Obsession Review : The perfect stay-at-home book ?
The world has changed with the coronavirus outbreak. We’re all going to spend a lot more time at home going forward.
You could spend your days endlessly scrolling your Facebook feed. Or you can read a book that can make an immediate impact on your love life.
I write a lot about dating and relationships on Hack Spirit.
And it’s not often I come across a new book that offers a new – and somewhat controversial – approach for women seeking love. But that’s what I found with His Secret Obsession by James Bauer.
The book claims that it will help any woman make their man commit to them over the long term.
How?
By unraveling the complex, primal desires of men.
Forget the nonsense of men ghosting you, saying they’re not ready, or that they don’t want a relationship. By following his advice, you’re supposed to have a guy in the palm of your hand.
These are bold claims, right? But does this book actually live up to the hype?
To answer this, I decided to buy the book, review it, and give you my honest thoughts about whether or not it’s worth your money.
Will His Secret Obsession work for you? Read on to find out.


What is His Secret Obsession?

His Secret Obsession by James Bauer is a powerful relationship guide that is available in downloadable PDF or audiobook versions.
The book tackles the issues that affect women around the world, including:
  • Why men can lose interest in a woman after the initial attraction wears off
  • Why men men are reluctant to commit long term, even when the early signs of relationship seem so promising
  • Why men can pull away suddenly and stop communicating with their partners.
The central assertion of His Secret Obsession is that men are driven by instinctive needs, even if they are not consciously aware of them.
James Bauer calls this ‘The Hero Instinct’. And he claims that it’s up to women to bring this to the fore. In fact, he says a man will be drawn to any woman who makes him feel it.
According to ‘The Hero Instinct’, men are driven by these three things:
  • To live a meaningful live and feel appreciated for his efforts
  • To provide for those he cares about in life, including his family, friends and especially his romantic partner
  • To be respected by his peers.
In short, men want to be a hero. And more importantly, they want to be your hero.



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